Love Letters from Clients

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Vital Cockfidence & Multiorgasmic Vitality

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My work with Sureya has helped opened up something in me that I never knew existed. Her teachings have sparked a fuse of desire so BIG, so magical inside me, its has changed my life forever. My experience with Sureya has made me feel I’m on a quest, a quest to make love to life its self. To soak up all the beauties life has to offer and truly connect. There is something DIVINE inside of us ALL just waiting to shine, I will forever be grateful to Sureya for showing me this! Truly a majestic soul!

-Ben, Denver, CO

“Before this course I didn’t know what to do. I had been addicted to porn for over 18 years, all of my relationships had failed due to some sort of sexual inadequacy, and my sense of confidence was gone. After being enrolled for just a couple weeks I can honestly say that it has forever changed my life. I have discovered new confidence and passion within myself. I have discovered parts of myself within me that I never knew existed, I never knew how to actually love myself before and give myself what I needed.

It has not only changed my views on sx, women, porn, and pleasure; it has challenged my own beliefs about myself and about my own desires. With this new feeling of confidence I feel compelled to create with my imagination again. I believe in myself for the first time in a very long time, maybe ever! I am so grateful for Sureya and for finding her course. It’s clear she has a passion for her work and it is so incredible to know that she has devoted her life to changing people’s beliefs about sex and about themselves.”

-Julian, Scottsdale, AZ

“I can now get to non-ejaculatory orgasms within a minute of self-pleasuring, and can have them over and over again for at least thirty minutes. It’s been a really awesome experience, they feel absolutely incredible. I’ve found I can do this multiple times a day if I want to because I don’t feel depleted at all. It doesn’t in any way interfere with having sex with my wife, it’s great. I don’t know why no one taught me this 50 years ago.

Thanks for all of your help. Having my wife participate in the support session for the lovers of the men in MV has been super helpful because she understands what I’m trying to do and has been so supportive and she’s been very happy, which is what matters to me the most. It’s been a big change from six months ago, things were a little frustrating, but it’s been much better since then. This has helped enormously. My wife and I agree that this class has been life-changing for me and also for us.

-Roger, 65

I had an absolutely profound experience working with Sureya that has positively transformed my life -- setting me on a direct path to a happier life. In the class of hers that I took, she presented a huge amount of useful and new knowledge in a well organized and clear way. Her care and support is evident in her gentle, straightforward, and compassionate approach. I couldn't recommend anyone more.

-Alexander, Boulder, CO

Sureya is a positive light. She has helped me work through trauma, intimate relationships, family relationships, and career building. In our sessions we took a deep dive into inner work within myself. I had to get to the root of the problem in order to release tension and resentment buildup. I am thankful and beyond grateful that I got to work with Sureya. I am able to live a healthier and more tranquil lifestyle now having had sessions. Highly recommend working with her.

- Serenity, San Diego, CA

In August of 2021, I was looking to start a new chapter in my life. So much had happened over the previous 1.5 years with COVID and challenges around the world. It was time to think about a personal transformation.
So instead of coming up with a new workout routine or maybe changing eating habits, I decided to go way outside of my comfort zone. Sureya took me down a path of self-awareness that evolved many of my outlooks on life and brought some new passion and flare into my relationship with my wife (she is a huge Sureya fan too).
Sureya gave me a new onramp for reflecting on mindfulness, how I manage stress and interactions with people as a whole. I ended up at a cabin on a lake by myself for a weekend to really wrap my head around who I am as a person and a sexual/sensual being.
This was by far the best investment of time and I look forward to a continued journey with Sureya.

 -Scott, Asheville, NC

Sureya is a wonderful and lovely practitioner. I'm a psychotherapist working in Boulder and I have referred a number of my clients to Sureya. She embodies wisdom and has excellent group facilitation skills. Definitely go and see her if you're curious! 

-Dan, Boulder, CO

I got a standing ovation from my staff today. I feel truly respected as a leader and a lot of this had to do with working with you. I truly worked through some meditations beforehand and what you have taught me has been working. Amazing! I leave Every time inspired on life and thinking of next steps to be a better person! Thank you for the coaching over the last two years. It has helped me sooo much. I appreciate you! Thanks for being an amazing teacher. You rock! Make the call! Go in with an open mind and you will not be disappointed. 

-Mehran, Aurora, CO

So I just completed my first course with Sureya and I am brimming with excitement to meet my lover again in a whole new way—with a deeper sense of reverence... a greater confidence in myself and in us... an understanding of his body and his needs... a more embodied connection with my own... and the tools to support us to integrate these keys into an Awakened & Activated Love Life. 

Sureya’s wisdom is like honey that pours through and seals any gaps in connection (that we may not even realized we had). With this nectar blooms a sense of true wholeness from which true, rich, fulfilling emotional & physical intimacy can emerge. 

There is a melody now brewing in my body that I can’t wait to sing into his, because I feel like I now know how to listen in for his true rhythm

Infinite is the harmony that can emerge from two souls learning how to be fully in their bodies, awakening pleasure, celebrating their humanness and exploring the limitless dimensions of our instruments. As we attune to the ways that they work & demystify the polarities between man and woman, our bodies learn to sing in tune. 

Tonight I learned some of the most important pieces of information anyone has ever shared with me about relationship, that finally debunked the mystery of why it can be so challenging to understand men. 

My level of compassion, patience, openness and acceptance increased almost as much as my excitement to crawl into bed with my lover and learn, listen and adore his everything. 

Sureya’s wisdom is the perfect balance of esoteric and practical, spiritual and grounded; her embodied approach and relatability makes this experience accessible for people from all walks of life.

If you are on the fence, just do it. it’ll change your life—and not just your sex life.

-Violet, Asheville, NC

Sureya has been a huge help in my life for the last 4 years! She has a magnitude of knowledge in multiple fields around the psychology of love sex and relationships. Her capacity to facilitate for deep inner work is absolutely astonishing and admirable. Sureya and her partner are incredibly tapped in and have witnessed a wonderful, healthy, long term partnership. So Whether be through virtual coaching or in person for sessions, I highly recommend her! 

 -Tomé, San Diego, CA

Sureya and her work came along at just the right time for me. This pandemic has highlighted a lot of things that I need to work on. I have been more isolated, and felt the need for intimacy very strongly. Yet I have found it so difficult to generate intimacy, to trust a woman fully enough after so many years of trauma and shame around dating and sex.

After finding my heart broken for the umpteenth time, feeling confused and ashamed, I found Sureya's work on a chance Google search. The free call with her showed me that she is a very caring teacher, with a vast capacity for listening and caring presence, so I started with her courses. These courses provide a path towards relaxing into love and pleasure, towards understanding masculinity and developing stronger integrity. The spiritual message that I was following unconsciously before this was one of "follow your blisters"- suffer more to become better. This is in contrast to "follow your bliss", which I felt was selfish.

Sureya's work bridges the gap between the two. In this work, everything is equally sacred. We learn that, in order to experience pleasure fully, we have to acknowledge, accept, and own our blisters and our wounds. The work is to look our deepest fears and regrets in the eye, and to love them. Though I certainly have not perfected this process, in a very short time I have discovered glimpses of the man and lover that I want to be. And I know a path that will take me there, with lots of hard work, and support from an amazing teacher and community of like-minded men along the way.

I would recommend this course to any man who feels like he could be better.

-Henry, Denver, CO

I attended a workshop of Sureya's and felt deeply held and grounded by her presence, confidence, and transparency. She created a beautiful container for myself and 10 other humans to be vulnerable, connect, and play. I would highly recommend any of Sureya's workshops as well as her 1:1 coaching offerings. It's clear that she's done the work herself and has a gift for gently exploring this sometimes difficult topic with others. 

-Chanelle, Boulder, CO

Sureya is a deeply intuitive, powerful coach who has a knack for connecting with exactly where work needs to be done, and how. I give her all 5 stars and a seal of endorsement. You will not regret working with this woman.

 Cat, Seattle, WA

 

Love love love this woman!! Highly recommend her. She creates a beautifully loving and safe container - not to mention juicy!!  Can't say enough good things about her and the work she is doing in the world!

-Dakota, Boulder, CO

Sureya is an absolutely beaming beacon of love. The guidance, exercises and tools she helped me access have been very helpful to my spiritual, energetic and sexual growth. I greatly appreciate this divine being and her service.

-Giovanna, Portland, OR

After hearing about Sureya's talents, I decided to meet with her to help ground me in my body.

In our first session together, she helped me to identify an old emotional pattern stemming from a deeply-engrained childhood memory. I did not realize that this memory was maintaining a persistent negative emotion that had me stuck. Sureya led me through the re-imagination of this memory that cleared up the emotional block.

The process was profound, yet enjoyable and not overly serious or cerebral.

I plan to work with Sureya again in the near future and recommend her strongly to those who might feel emotionally stuck and are seeking a lighthearted, yet powerful, guide through these blocks.

-MARCEL, FAMILY PHYSICIAN, PORTLAND, OR

Sureya is a deeply wise and authentic space holder, bringing light and awareness to intricate parts of the human experience. Working with her in navigating the patterns of relationship was truly eye-opening. She gave my partner and I the tools to really discover our truths and communicate them with each other. Settled firmly within ancient traditions and teachings, what she has to offer is a gift.

-Niikah, San Diego, CA

I received my first session with Sureya during a tough time. For three years, I jumped from one partner to another, and the mix of emotion and energy carried from one relationship onto the next had me feeling drained, unable to identify which emotions belonged to which relationship. In short, I was a hot mess! My last relationship had dissolved suddenly and I lost faith in the idea of partnership and my ability to be a good partner.

My dear friend Sureya offered me a session and while at first I was a tad skeptical that tantric counseling could have any lasting effect, Sureya spent a good amount of time helping me to disentangle what my true goals were - not just for partnership, but for myself.

We talked, laughed and her sweet sense of humor helped me to see situations from angles I hadn’t considered before and to refocus my attention on what really mattered: My own work with myself. Rather than fixing myself through relationship, I began seeing myself as a whole person worthy and deserving of love, and most of all worthy and deserving of self-love.

Sureya not only counseled me wisely, with beautiful compassion and a sweet sense of humor, she also offered me the tools from her own toolkit, empowering me to find my own way. To me, the sign of a true teacher is a person willing to give you sustainable tools to help yourself, not just quick fixes that keep you in a state of need. Now, I keep coming back simply for the joy and adventure of self-development. Each time I learn something new about myself, and am more and more grateful for my perfectly unfolding life.

-GABRIELLE, SANDPOINT, ID

Working with Sureya completely changed my life. When I started working with Sureya I had already practiced some of the Taoist and tantric principles that influence her offerings, and made huge strides in my personal growth, but I was still struggling to act on my inspiration and manifest the love I was longing for. As soon as I began the course, I felt a huge boost in my excitement and confidence, delighting in the sensuality of the moment.


Previously it was so hard to work through the fear of talking to someone I was interested in, dance with them, or share what I truly felt. But instead of worrying if I could get what I was desiring, Sureya helped me enjoy the connection we already were sharing. For the first time in my life I was basking in the joy of connection with everyone around me and celebrating in intimacy with the people I felt most drawn to. Sureya helped me learn several practices to cultivate my sexual energy and enjoy the best sex of my life.
Sureya is such a wonderful human to learn from. She brings a wonder and joy to sessions that is uplifting and inspiring, while understanding and compassionate. Her deep wisdom and training allow her to teach valuable skills in sexual mastery.
This new energy and state of consciousness led me to connect with a delightful, insightful, gorgeous woman and we quickly fell in love. Less than a year after beginning Sureya's program, I am happily married to the love of my life, having amazing sex, and fulfilling our dreams together. Of course everyone's journey will be completely different, but I'm sure anyone who works with Sureya and invests your energy into her teachings with an open mind will be delightfully surprised with the shifts that develop in your life.”

-Devin, Boulder, CO

Sureya Leonara has been a TRANSFORMATIVE figure in my healing and empowerment process and I really couldn't ask for a better teacher, guidance system, and just all around down to earth human being to work through this course with. Sureya provides profound depth and knowledge, as well as practical and grounded practices for yourself/with a partner, in this realm of tantra and sacred-sexuality. So much love!!

Forrest, Boulder, CO

Sureya is incredibly dedicated and devoted to her work, and you can feel this in all of her offerings. She has the ability and presence to truly meet people where they are, planting powerful seeds and offering beautiful, honest reflections to help build your confidence. Anyone could benefit from a session, a conversation or workshop with Sureya.

 -Melanie, San Diego, CA

Sureya is a very warm person. If you're struggling with confidence or self esteem, I highly recommend her men’s program if you can swing the cash. Sessions with Sureya are just incredibly validating (but that doesn't mean she won't call you on BS), but more importantly she teaches you how to trust yourself and live your truth.

-Chris, Chambersburg, PA

I love working with Sureya! She is loving, patient, kind, and an expert in her craft. She takes a variety of angles at issues, which creates a unique session with her each time. The breath-work we did together was incredible, and her insight into relating with yourself and others is invaluable. I'm thrilled to have her as a friend and coach.

-Chad, New Orleans, LA

Sureya is gentle, playful, open, experienced, And is overflowing with full of love, nurturance, insight, and wisdom. She holds space in an airtight container of allowance, trust, and connection. She’s an absolute powerhouse catalyst for growth, introspection, and expansion, and makes the process firey and fun. Six out of five stars! You want her in your life! 

-David, Denver, CO

I recently took her Multi-orgasmic Vitality course and I am so inspired to continue this lifestyle shift to become the most multiorgasmic man I can be, in and out of the bedroom!
I loved the depth and the breadth of conversation, dialogue, practices and support that I received from Sureya and the other men before, during and after the course.
As a man who considers himself intuitively in touch with my body and my senses, I can confidently say with these integrated practices, I am now able to be with myself more fully in presence along with my partners in every level of central and sexual experience.
This course is not just about pleasing, performance or getting what you want...
It is about a lifestyle of cultivated and embodied practices to be more fully present and when we choose to express ourselves and those ways with the added bonus of cultivating multiple orgasms while experiencing deep and delicious pleasure with yourself and others!
I would recommend this course to any man that is truly ready to deepen their relationship with themselves.
Sureya has masterfully put together this course and others in a structured, supportive and comprehensive way that is easy to follow and without pressure to minimize overwhelm. She has cultivated and learned these practices herself and she has embodied it and such a divine, embodied and communicative way.
I am wholeheartedly support her work and cannot express the gratitude I feel within my heart, my mind, my body and my soul for what I received through this work.


-Logan, Boulder, CO

“Sureya is a kindhearted compassionate pioneer of her work. I was able to rediscover myself in the supportive safe container that she naturally creates. Our work together has transformed me in countless ways. I love myself again! I am forever grateful Sureya! Five STARS!!!”

- John, Boulder, CO

Absolutely love working with Sureya. I see her being my Tantra coach for many years to come. This is obviously her passion and her calling and the content she puts out is always right on point. Such a blessing to have in our lives. Always nice to look at the work we are doing and notice the progress over time.

-Bruno, Boulder, CO


Sureya is an incredibly talented, wise and professional tantric coach and leader. I highly recommend attending one of her pujas — whether you are single or coupled! She creates such a beautiful, safe, and playful container to truly explore the depths of our beings as well as the depths of others. The level of connection I find here is brilliant ... thank you for sharing your gifts with us all, I appreciate you so very much!!❤️

-Katie, Denver, CO

 

Sureya holds beautiful and safe space for those she works with and I highly recommend her to anyone. I find her tantra pujas to be incredibly thoughtful and nourishing and approachable to even those with no knowledge or experience with tantra. Very wonderful presence and clearly comfortable and experienced with consent language, because she interweaves consent fluidly and beautifully into all her work!

-Annie, Boulder, CO

My session with Sureya was nothing short of inspiring, challenging and nurturing.

Her graceful guidance pushed me to look within areas of myself that I have not visited in almost a decade. Her visualization techniques lead me into a trance, allowing me to revisit tough memories in a safe, supported and comforting space. She lead me through the process every step of the way, never once urging me to speak when I was at a loss for words. She helped me to dive deep to the root of issues concerning my femininity, and how to embrace and celebrate it fully.

Sureya is a true gem, a gorgeous, glowing goddess who will help you to realize that you are exactly the medicine you need.

I cannot recommend Sureya and the amazing gifts she has to offer enough!

-Katy, Boston, MA

Prior to walking into my healing session I had very little experience with tantra or working to balance the male and female energies in the body. I have experience with meditation and energy work but have always found the sacral chakra, associated with sexuality, simultaneously intimidating and intriguing. I came to my session both with an open mind and a slight undertone of anxiety.

Like many men out there, I find it difficult to open up and shed my walls, but walking into the beautiful healing sanctuary that Sureya has cultivated, I immediately felt more comfortable. Sureya was very easy to talk to and no matter what the subject was, she spoke in such a way that made it feel very natural to respond and shed any pain, fear, insecurity, regret that I was feeling at certain points.

In the purest sense, Sureya provides a safe space to open up about your sexuality to heal, overcome barriers, and rewrite your story to make you a better and more confident person. As a society we shame people for speaking about our sexuality and it was very refreshing to be able to do so in a constructive way. I walked away from my session feeling very refreshed and with a lightness from my newfound appreciation for intimacy in its purest most playful sense.

I highly recommend this work to everyone. No matter what current or past issues you’re experiencing, you will find some perspective to help you move beyond them. I look forward to integrating the work and exercises from my first session and scheduling another. Thanks Sureya!

-BRIAN, BOSTON, MA

I have been seeing Sureya for almost a year and a half now. While every session has had a different texture, all of them were energizing and settling at the same time. The space that Sureya holds allows the guided meditations to go to a depth that’s not accessible for me normally. From my limited understanding of Tantra, there is an acceptance and embracing in there, of all aspects of life, from the physical to the transcendental. One is encouraged to traverse all points of life in pursuit of the highest. Sureya embodies that absolutely. Her wisdom, her energy and her compassion, creates a nurturing experience for me every single time. Looking forward to continuing the journey.

-Vishal, San Diego, CA

Sureya's many gifts of intuition and insight are deeply felt within moments of experiencing her healing presence. She gracefully builds a bridge between ancient wisdom and the modern world to share knowledge that is both profound and accessible to all - even those without experience in Eastern traditions. Sureya is a clear channel for the healing arts of Tantra and embodied movement practices.

-SIRENA, PORTLAND, OR

Sureya is a genuine soul and I cannot recommend her enough. I felt a connection with Sureya from our very first session together. She uses different tantric techniques combined with her incredible intuition to help me discover who I truly am, and what my purpose in this life is.

Thank you, Sureya!

-TOMMY, PORTLAND, OR

Sureya is an amazing healer, visionary and transformer. She is authentic, genuine, insightful and comes from a place of no judgement. She truly cares about the growth and evolution of all souls- energetically, physically, sexually and spiritually.
She is passionate and driven. Soulful and heartfelt.
I can't recommend Sureya enough. She will help guide and change your life for the better!

-Jeremy, Boulder, CO

Sureya is so wonderful to talk to. She is very understanding and wise. I wish I could say more about how Great she is but you just need to speak to her yourself.

-Robert, Colorado Springs, CO

I attended Sureya's beautiful Puja that a Facebook friend had been interested in. She led us through an array of simple and effective relating exercises, while keeping a safe and sacred container for us all. Left feeling really alive and empowered. Looking forward to her Couples Puja near Valentine's day!! 

-Jarom, Boulder, CO

My wife and I had a fantastic time at one of her meetings we felt warm included and comfortable even though it was our first time there. I would highly recommend her services to anyone in need. 

-Christopher, Denver, CO

 

Sureya holds a beautiful, caring space. She puts a lot of thought into the rituals and practices she offers, and skillfully navigates and leads people through the experience. I am grateful to be able to attend her heart opening events.

-David, Boulder, CO

Sureya is one of the most grounded and in touch people I have ever met. She is a talented coach as she is extremely passionate about what she does. Highly recommended.

-Darian, Boulder, CO

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