Do you dare to embrace a woman in her entirety?
Are you pure or wild? Sweet and sacred or sexy and sultry? A mother or a lover? The type you bring home to mom, or a seductive secret? The one who has his heart, or the one that makes him feel ALIVE?
These are the Madonna-whore dichotomies the patriarchy has boxed women into, fracturing the feminine psyche & creating a divide both within women and between them.
We've been sold the idea that we can be either/or, not both and MORE. We've been programmed to be the good girl and fall in line, or are pushed to be the bad girl by rebelling and rejecting the superficial molds we've been stuffed into.
Sometimes these sides become disintegrated and we swing between them like a pendulum, creating a double life where we dare not let them meet.
Severing a woman's heart from her sex creates an internal war and pits women against each other based upon which side they've chosen, forgetting that both are equal and necessary sides of the same coin. When these polarities are separated they become caricatures of their true nature and one side judges the others as prudes, goodie goodies and squares; while the other side is slutshamed, not to be trusted, ostracized.
Often mothers feel like they can no longer be express their inner sex goddess, or a man may struggle to sexualize the mother of his children. This split ruins marriages and boxes women into incomplete, limited expressions of themselves.
The mother and lover are not mutually exclusive! The lover is born from the mother and the lover creates the mother. Such is the generational, life-giving cycle of women.
Sex is the seed of our creation & the severance between sex and spirit has fragmented and deluded us into denying the source of our existence, our primordial power, and vitality. Erotic innocence is our natural state; love and passion are eternal lovers and the creators of this universe.
The matter is Mother and to demean her is to sever our roots, nourishment, and reverence for the womb that makes life possible.
Tantra sees EVERYTHING as sacred, even the “profane,“ because it’s all of the same source.
Shakti including ALL of existence, EVERY permutation of life-force. She embraces every piece of us. A whole woman embodies the full spectrum.
What happens when you allow your love to infuse your passion and your passion to feed your love? This is the sacred union that exists within.
The yoni is a two-way portal that both receives pleasure and seed and births new life. Her breasts that arouse also nurture new life. The female form is not linear and single-purpose, but a masterful multifaceted design that weaves the circle of life into being.
Women, we can have our cake and eat it too. Our true essence expands far beyond these confines we've been chiseled into. Some of us have come home to this integration; some of us are still painfully longing for the other side, whether we know it or not. The more we embrace it in ourselves, the more we celebrate it in each other, and vice versa.
By revering the Feminine in her authentic, uninhibited expression, we restore powerful wildness and radiance to the world in a way that's been long lost, that the world desperately needs right now. Can you allow these lovers to dance freely once again?
Men, can you allow the same hands and lips that open your heart to be the same that turn you on? Do you dare to embrace a woman in her entirety?