Shift your perspective and be open to receive
Your magnetism is strengthened by embodying the FEELING of already having what it is you desire... It's a courting of the piece of the whole you want to connect more deeply with through slipping into its skin & becoming its essence.
It's not something you have to reach for, but rather open to.. You are never separate from it.
That delicious charge between lovers is always here; it's the nature of existence.
We are the longing & union between matter & spirit. The love-making between Earth and Sun. The lovechild of Shiva and Shakti.
The essence of Eros is woven into everything because creation is MADE of sexual energy.
Dropping into your richest, most radiant expression is the pathway to manifesting your match in physical form, not by complaining you don't have it or worrying you won't ever, which is sure to repel it.
And I don't just mean this in terms of a lover.
Whether you're calling in a beloved, abundance, vitality, influence, creativity, freedom, or a deeper sense of purpose & fulfillment... You must match its frequency, regardless of how much they seem to be physically present in your life!
Feel the pleasure they inspire within you (and remember that even though these things or people may INSPIRE it WITHIN you, it still lives within YOU. They simply awaken it, not create it).
Dress for the occasion. Care for yourself in the way you would if you already had these things.
Bring forth the side of you that is attractive to the things you wish to draw closer. Make them want it as much as you want them.
Joy, gratitude, pleasure, & orgasmic energy are CONTAGIOUS and alluring.
Flirt with every moment of existence & life will wink back with beautiful synchronicities & blessings- some of which will be beyond your wildest dreams and some of which will be laced into the "mundane" and will only reveal themselves to you if you can shift your perspective and be open to receive them.