A lot of people are sexually NUMB. Here's why.
A lot of people are sexually NUMB. Many of us are only experiencing a small slice of the spectrum of sensation available to us, requiring intense stimulation to feel ANYTHING.
Vibrators, porn, inebriated fucking, mindless/goal-oriented masturbation, and trauma can all be at the root of this.
Many of us have conditioned ourselves to only be able to get off with high-intensity sensation and have desensitized ourselves to the more subtle realms of pleasure that can be infinitely deep and powerful.
Vibrators don't resemble the human touch and can drastically increase our tolerance for what's needed to bring us to orgasm.
Porn shows us hard pounding w/little or no foreplay is the way, which can actually cause a woman's cervix to shut down in pain or numbness, rather than opening to orgasm if she's not fully turned on, relaxed and open.
Aggressive fucking and masturbation can also rub our most sensitive nerve-endings raw, especially for circumcised cocks that don't have the foreskin to help with too much friction, even with lube.
Depending on inebriation to connect sexually disconnects us from our bodies and our ability to FEEL deeply and stay present.
Chasing orgasm doesn't give us the opportunity to learn to LISTEN and CONNECT with our sexual essence.
It's the difference between talking WITH someone and AT them. Your sexual essence appreciates dialogue and receptivity.
Trauma causes the body to shut down to avoid pain and go numb.
Our bodies can short-circuit from pleasure that is too sharp and intense as well.
We have the capacity to move ENORMOUS amounts of pleasure and energy through our systems, but if we can't relax and stay present with it, we can overload our system and desensitize ourselves in a way that can't pick up on the more subtle sensations that can build and sustain in the most delicious of ways.
When you give your body TIME to BUILD into highly pleasurable states, your ENTIRE BODY can become an erogenous zone, capable of sustaining unfathomable, profound, CONNECTED pleasure...
To the point that you can orgasm from the feathery stroking of your thumbs or the sensual caress of your own breathing!
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