What Is Your Sex Life Telling You?
Sexual struggles are symptoms of a deeper misalignment and are a reflection of how energy is flowing (or not) in the rest of your life.
They’re not isolated to the bedroom, but rather integrated into the whole of our lives.
Your body is a mirror for what’s out of balance in your life, a map of the unconscious.
Your yoni is an oracle of the unseen, a literal and metaphysical portal to the void.
If sex isn’t working, we need to ask what’s out of alignment internally or in our relationship.
Low libido often stems from not being turned on by life or having a communication blockage, distrust, or emotional disconnect from your lover.
Not being able to get wet can mean you're not ready yet and need deeper connection or more time; that the context isn't right; that your body is storing trauma and requires greater safety to relax; or that your yoni is protecting you from receiving this lover inside of you for a reason you may not be aware of.
If your body isn’t responding in a way that allows you to sexually connect, it doesn't necessarily mean something is wrong with you. More often than not, it's the wisdom of the body having your back by working EXACTLY how it’s supposed to.
In the same way that pain and illness are messengers, alerting us that something’s out of balance/needs attention, sexual "dysfunctions” serve to bring awareness to something deeper going on, if we know how to read the signs.
Learning to listen to the oracle of the body can reveal where healing and integration are needed. It’s essential to respond in reverence rather than mistaking the body’s communication as an annoyance or inconvenience.
Sometimes there is indeed a physical problem disrupting our sexual expression, though often this is a more deeply set physical manifestation of a long-term imbalance.
For example, chronic infections/pain/dryness of the yoni are often symptoms of being out of balance with our feminine energy/operating in overdrive which can disrupt our hormones, or repressing trauma that’s asking to be healed.
Sexual energy flows a lot better when we talk with it, rather than at it. Opening a dialogue with our bodies is the most potent route we can take to liberating our sexual energy.