What Your Man Wishes You Knew

Ever felt like the idea that men and women are ever supposed to get each other is a cruel, cosmic joke?

I did for years. I couldn’t fathom how such opposite creatures could ever truly harmonize. It seemed hopeless and ridiculous. I considered only dating women, cutting the possibility of synergistic love with a man out of the picture entirely.

A decade later, I see this paradox from an entirely new perspective, having received ancient codes of understanding through the lineages of Tantra and Taoism (holistic approaches to life and spirituality from the far East), and having had the opportunity to work intimately with men for over 7 years as a holistic sex & relationship coach.

I now understand that the perceived battle of the sexes holds the potential, and is designed, to be a dance of weaving opposites into sacred union, and that our design as inverses of each other is actually what makes polarity and magnetism possible.

We’re actually perfect complements; two sides of the same coin. With the proper roadmaps of the dynamic interplay that exists between us, we have the ability to harmonize beautifully.

After spending years decoding the masculine, I’ve realized there are myriad ways that both sexes are taking ineffective approaches to relating with one another, and I’ve developed immense compassion and understanding for both sides.

It takes two to tango, and I’m excited to illuminate some of the most important, yet misunderstood codes of the masculine that men wish you knew about so you can play your part effectively. Embodying these codes will pave the way for you to dance with the masculine with greater grace, ease and passionate fulfillment.

Following are some of the most core elements he wishes you got about him:

𓂀 He expresses his love with his c0ck

𓂀 Our lack of emotional foreplay can feel as abrasive as his lack of sexual foreplay.

𓂀 He says what he means and means what he says-- try to do the same.

𓂀 Speak to his heart, rather than attacking his ego.

𓂀 Have compassion for the responsibility he holds in keeping the party going.

This is just the intro & the main points I write about in my newly published article, "Decoding the Masculine for Harmonious Relationships: What He Wishes You Got About Him" in Elle Leva's online magazine.

To read the full 4-page article and elaboration on these key points, head over to Elle Leva and grab their "Intimate Relationships" edition, where I and 35 other women muse on intimacy through various different art forms.